See this?
Just sew the last piece on right?
I'm nope
See that little slit
I didn't when I cut the piece
So back to see if I have a scrap left 1.5x3.5 for this
Grrrr
Sorry I worried some of you by not posting
It has been a trying week
One of my neighbors I just met when Rich passed and she and I have hit it off and enjoy each other's company
I share my cooking with her and she with me
We go shopping together
Etc and the more we get to know each other the more we have in common
Fav pizza pepper and onion, both oldest child, both have 3 brothers etc
Anywho on Saturday we went out to eat and to shop for a new vac
When we arrived home we each had a nasty message on our phones
About why we went out without her, why we aren't answering the phone, why are we rude to her etc.
I was dumbfounded
One I can certainly go out to eat with whomever I want whenever I want
Two I am never rude unless provoked
Three I am not answering the phone cause I'm not home
So we called her.my friend called first and was yelled at because she likes me better blah blah
What? Are we in grade school?
Who does that?
My friend told her basically to take a long walk off a short pier
I was next trying to rationalize what was happening
She started off ranting and I stopped her. I said no I listened to your unnecessary nasty message now you listen to me.
1 I don't need to tell you where I am going or with whom
2 I went with a friend to buy a vacuum not what your mind was thinking
3 I am not obligated to take you everywhere I go
And 4 our friendship is done
I have done nothing but make this woman meals, take her for groceries, trim her plants to save her 400 bucks..etc
And I get this?
I'm nope. Done
So I didn't post because I was upset
And angry
And confused
I got 4 hrs sleep the other night
I questioned myself as if I did something wrong
Is it wrong to enjoy someone's company
And it's not a male so not the too soon for a relationship after hubs type of conversation
Do you have possessive neighbors?
I didn't know either my friend of I were a possession
Anyway I decided then and there to move on from negativity
And move toward nicer people and things in my life
Sorry for the rant
Just was wondering if you have crazy neighbors too
Oh sorry about that little cut piece--hope you can find some more of that fabric or a close match')))
ReplyDeleteAwful about that neighbor's thinking she has exclusive rights to you and whomever you choose to go out with...yikes!! Just put her behind you, life is too short to have to deal with
people like that!! hugs, Julierose
You know you haven't done anything wrong. This person is clearly very immature and it's so sad she has to be this way. You keep doing YOU and being the sweet person you are...and, avoid the negativity. As we all know, life is too short and precious to be wasted on such sillyness.
ReplyDeleteShe certainly isn't a friend and you have the right to live your own life without reporting to her. It sounds like she might have a split personality. I hope she doesn't become a future problem.
ReplyDeleteHope you can finish your block. I've had problems with neighbors in the past so I just wave and say hi. I don't get too friendly anymore. No one should be telling you what to do. Do your own thing!
ReplyDeletePeople can be so mean. Praying for your neighbor to be nice. 🙏
ReplyDeleteOK we know I have crazy ass neighbors. LOL I have one that constantly drives by in his golf cart to see what I am doing. If I am out with Bobbin walking in the field he videos me. Can't wait to be out of here.
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